Sense of Secure..

What is sense of secure to us? How would we define sense of secure? Who should provide the sense of secure and who should be the one receiving? I have a set of answers which might not be recognized by all. Anyhow, I just wish to share with my fellow friends.

A lot of my friends think that i'm a childish and playful person. I seems like not being serious enough in most of the time. And some even comment that I can't provide the sense of secure to them. But is it the real character of mine? I only can tell that the perception is incorrect. That's not the real me. The playful side of me is only a part of me. Friends who are close with me will agree with my point. Only those who are close enough with me will know my real character. My philosophy is "Play Hard, Work Smart". Therefore, whenever I'm in the mood of playing, I'll be 100% committed, and of coz, vice versa when I'm in the mood of working. I think that we need not to be 100% serious all the time. We are human, we need to find an equilibrium in our state of mind. We can't just keep ourselves under pressure for most of the time.

A chinese proverb says that "Great Wisdom is like being absurd". I'm totally agreed with the proverb. We need not to show to people how much talent we have, nor we need to concern about what others perceive about us. Sometimes, a person who acts as being naive doesn't means that the person is really naive. My frens, what are your comment about it?

10 promises to my Dogs

I watched a Japanese movie recently which caught my eyes. The movie is about a dog name "Socks", and its owner. The movie is very touching and i like the movie so much. It reminds me of my 2 lovely doggies. Thus, I'd listed out the 10 promises that the movie emphasized so much about how we should treat our dog. The following is the list of promises:

1.) Give me time to understand what you want of me.

2.) Place your trust in me. It’s crucial to my well-being.

3.) Be aware that however you treat me, I’ll never forget about it.

4.) Before you scold me for being lazy, ask yourself if something might be bothering me

5.) Talk to me sometimes. Even if I don’t understand your words, I do understand your voice when it’s speaking to me.

6.) Remember before you hit me, I have teeth that could hurt you, but that I choose not to bite you.

7.) Take care of me when I get old.

8.) You have your work, your entertainment, and your friends. I have only you.

9.) My life is likely to last 10 to 15years. Any separation from you will be painful for me.

10.) Go with me on difficult journeys. Everything is easier for me if you are there. Remember I love you...

My dear friends who own doggies, hope that my little message will provide some food for thought to you, and start treat your dogs with love and care.

My favourite song of all..

My frens… This is my favourite song of all..
hope u enjoy it..

軌跡

怎麼隱藏我的悲傷﹐失去你的地方。
你的髮香散的匆忙﹐我已經跟不上。
閉上眼睛還能看見你離去的痕跡。
在月光下一直找尋那想念的身影。
如果說分手是苦痛的起點﹐
那在終點之前我願意再愛一遍。
想要對你說的不敢說的愛﹐
會不會有人明白

* 我會發着呆,然後忘記你﹐接着緊緊閉上眼。
想着那一天會有人代替你﹐讓我不再想念你。
我會發着呆﹐然後微微笑﹐接着緊緊閉上眼。
又想了一遍你溫柔的臉﹐在我忘記之前。
心裡的眼淚﹐模糊了視線﹐我已快看不見。

Hope u LUV tis song… *.~

Never Ending Love

Love, is a promise. It’s an eternal one and everlasting.

Love, is trust. We must trusted and trust each other.

Love, is patient. Tolerate is the key to close relationship.

Love, is grace. It’s the best gift that God has ever graced us.

Love, is not jealousy. Envy will only bring forth self destruction.

Love, is a vow. One which we must keep at all cost.

Love, has no ending. It’s last forever and ever till the end of the world.

Love, is a true feeling. It will not fade at any cost and will only grow deeper.

Love, is a covenant. It’s like the covenant of rainbow between God and human.

Love, is truthful. We must not betray our beloved one.

Love, is caring. Care the one u love more than anything on the world.

Love, is gentle. Anger will bring along agony and bitterness.

Love, is unconditional. Unconditional love is the highest degree of love - AGAPE LOVE

My dear friends, i wish to dedicate this passage to all of u, hoping to remind u the very basic of love. May u all able to find your true love someday.

God

Loves

U...

Declaring War on Cigarattes !!

I had enough!! I’d been living in a scrutinized world where the values of the world had been twisted! Yes, I’m talking to you people, you smokers! I had enough!

I’m writting this blog hoping to make you guys aware and understand how hatred i am to you people! You people must not aware how you make people around you suffered! As a person who had been affected directly from smoking, i really hate cigarattes!! You people are making the person around you to suffer involuntary. I’m the living example.
My father is a heavy smoker. Even before i was born, he already been a heavy smoker. The only image that he gave me is that he smokes non-stop, from dawn to dust. As a result, he’s been the most hatred figure of mine. As he walks pass anywhere, the "aroma" of cigarattes just follows him to everywhere. The odour is just so digusting!! And i always cover my nose whenever he starts smoking around me.

I just don’t understand why the smokers keep on smoking. They are just paying to buy sufferings. They seems like do not understand the harm that cigarettes will bring about to them. What i’m meaning here is not only damages caused psyhically, but something deeper than that. Just for example, my relationship with my dad ruined and messed up because of smoking. A lot of people complaining about the petrol price hike and the soaring of food prices. The most talked about topic is how to save petrol and save money. But ironically, among all the ideas and ways discussed, no one would suggest to reduce the smoking habit. Ridiculous right?
Hopefully, my fellow friends who read this article would be inspired by my sharing. The least i wish to achieve is that my fellow friends will have some food for thought and really see this matter seriously. By doing so, it is my dream that the world will become smoke-less one day..


" World without smoke;Making the world a better place to live "